If I really like a guy after a first date, I'll invite him in, light some candles, turn on some soft music, dim the lights, pour us each a vodka over ice and initiate some kissing and cuddling. Still fully dressed, and when I can feel his erection, I'll gently and softly lick its swollen, rubbery, excited glans focusing my sedcutive tongue on stimulating its uber-sensitive frenulum. When I feel the increased warmth of his erection on my excited tongue , it alerts me that my attention to detail will culminate in his gloroious ejaculation of warm sperm in and over my willing mouth!